Some people are of the opinion that about three quarters of the time, it is the girl who dumps the guy. What if you are one of them and wondering how to get your ex girl back? But seriously, are you sure you want the girl back?

First give it a thought and decide if she may actually have done you a favor. Sometimes, guys stay in a relationship out of sheer inertia and it just easier to continue with it. Think again if this girl who dumped you is your soul mate. Otherwise, this would have been a blessing in disguise. Get over it and get on with life.

What if this is not the case? Read my next blog post to find out how to get your ex girl back.

In the last post on how to get ur ex back if he wants more space, the idea was to make your presence felt without looking desperate or nagging.

If this idea works, and he warms up to you and looks like he want to rekindle things, then you might want to be open with him. But remember to talk only of happy and good memories and experiences. Stay away from bad and negative experiences. You may just spoil all the hard work you put in.

However, it is very possible that he does have other commitments that he cannot neglect and he really does need space in which case you need to give it to him.

These are some simple steps in how to get exboyfriend back. You can get more ideas that will help in T W Jackson’s “The Magic Of Making Up” or one of a few other books that can help.

Everything is going great and you spend many happy times together. Looks like nothing can separate you. Then, one fine day your boyfriend wants wants to break off because he says he wants more space. How to get ur ex back in this situation?

There are a few different reasons for why he wants more space. Could be family or work commitments, insecurities or just a fear of commitment. Here are some ideas on how to get ur ex back.

For a start, you may have to give him the benefit of the doubt. By holding on tight to him, if he just fears commitment, the situation will only get worst. Do give him the space without totally letting go.

Keep some minimum communication with him. Short text messages, emails or brief phone calls. Not calls that nag him but some interesting information that does not in any way imply that the relationship is on. Must be the kind of calls that make him realise what he is missing without your presence in his life.

More in next post…

When getting over breakups, the main thing is not to dwell on the painful split and relive that moment many, many times. There is no better way of spiraling down into the pits of misery.

Spend time with some good friends with whom you are comfortable discussing the matter. Let them help you in getting over heartbreak. Not just talk about the breakup, but also go on outings with your friends. Do other interesting things that will take your mind away from the breakup.

This is also a good time to think of all the things in your life that you are grateful for. Your ex is not the only thing in your life as much as it may feel like it is. Listing all the things that you have and all the people who care for you and you care about. The pain will not all disappear but at least you can reduce the intensity.

This may also be a good time to spend more time on the project that you have been delaying or the hobby for which you did not have enough time.

If you though want to get back together with your ex, then the situation needs to be handled differently. Will cover this in future blogposts.

Getting over breakups is never easy. You can logically convince yourself that this was the best given the circumstances and be so logical about it… but this was part of your life and its gone. But it is important to get over the pain and find ways of dealing with it even if it seems impossible.

Some people going through breakups may have no one they can talk with or may not want to discuss it with anyone. This makes it worst. The thing is that you too can get over this painful breakup. Only, though, if you are willing to deal with it the right way.

There are many people who have gone through breakups and have come out of it and gone on to happier times. So can you if you are overcoming a breakup.

A couple of tips will be shared in the next blog on getting over breakups.

Overcoming a breakup is seldom easy. It can be a painful experience especially if you had a beautiful relationship going.

Being in love is so wonderful that when a breakup happens, so many dreams are dashed. There is something you want to do to fix up this whole problem.

Are you in such a situation? In a sense of desperation, do you feel like agreeing to everything your ex says? Or in anger, do you lay all blame for the breakup on your ex?

In overcoming a breakup, if you react to the situation, the chances of making a good next move may be slim. You need to think strategically as to how to approach the situation.

A breakup is not the end of the world. Life goes on… and it will get better for that experience. One needs to find how best to take the next steps in overcoming a breakup successfully.

Watch this blog for useful information on overcoming a breakup!